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How Gratitude Activates the Law of Attraction

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Gratitude and The Law of Attraction

The Law of Attraction is the name given to the belief that "like attracts like" and that by focusing on positive or negative thoughts, you can bring about positive or negative results.

Why Gratitude Is So Powerful

A simple and powerful way to help you focus on the positives in your life is to feel gratitude. It shifts your mindset from all that is going wrong to all that is going right. It raises your energy level and brings hope that change is possible. This will help to attract better life experiences.

How to Build a Daily Gratitude Practice

  • Make a habit of thinking about everything you could be grateful for. Write it out daily. Some do it in the morning to start their day in a positive frame of mind, and I recommend doing it at night as well, before your head hits the pillow. You can say them out loud if that helps.
  • You can tap on the meridian points on your body with  EFT Tapping  while affirming your list
  • If any negative feelings arise, especially if you are anxious at night, you can tap (EFT) on any body tension or feelings you may be struggling with. The tapping will calm the hamster wheel worries and thought patterns that keep you awake.

Write the list stating what works in your relationships and work situations, even if it isn't your ideal job or relationship. Seeing the positive can compel you to attract a better, more meaningful job or relationship. We have the agency to steer the way our lives are heading. It takes consistency, belief in yourself, and all that is possible with God.

What You Focus On Is What You Attract

What you focus on most is what you tend to attract. If your thoughts are constantly centered on what's not working, you may end up attracting more of the same — and that takes a toll on your well-being. But when you shift your focus to what is working, you naturally invite more positive energy, opportunities, and outcomes into your life.

Gratitude in Action — Examples to Get You Started

Here are some examples, but you will have your own, so replace mine with your statements, write them out, date them, and say them out loud. I encourage you to tap on the statements for 2–5 minutes each:

Your Work or Career

"I'm grateful for my full-time job — it allows me to provide for my family and save a little each month."

Even if the job isn't your ideal, this mindset helps build positive momentum. It creates space for better opportunities to come your way — like a job that offers higher pay or aligns more closely with your passions.

Your Studies

If you're in a tough season, like studying something challenging, you might say:

"I'm grateful to be learning this subject. Even though it's challenging, I know I'm close to earning my degree — and it will all be worth it."

Your Living Situation

If things feel especially difficult — maybe you're out of work or staying with friends while you get back on your feet — you can still find a place for gratitude. For example:

"I'm grateful for the friends who are letting me stay with them. I have a roof over my head and people who care. I'm thankful for a safe space while I search for the right job and a new place to live."

Gratitude Is an Ally, Not a Magic Wand

Of course, gratitude doesn't replace action. You still need to take steps toward your goals and intentions. But gratitude is a powerful ally on the journey. It helps shift your emotional state, aligns your energy, and activates the law of attraction in your favor.

If You Are Still Struggling...

If gratitude feels difficult to access, or you've been trying and things still aren't shifting, please be gentle with yourself. There is often a deeper reason — and it's not a failure of willpower or positive thinking. 

Why Affirmations Alone Often Don't Work

The Law of Attraction teaching popularised affirmations as the go-to tool for raising your vibration and attracting what you want. And they can help. But for many people, affirmations alone don't create lasting change — and that can feel deeply discouraging.

Here's why: affirmations work on the conscious mind. But it's the subconscious mind that runs most of our lives. And if your subconscious is holding onto old beliefs that contradict what you're affirming, it will quietly cancel out every positive statement you make.

The Hidden Beliefs That Block You

For example, you might be affirming "I am worthy of love and abundance" — but underneath, a part of you absorbed a very different message growing up. Maybe money was always a source of stress in your family. Maybe love felt conditional or unsafe. Those old beliefs don't disappear just because we tell them to. They were formed to protect you, often during painful or overwhelming experiences — and they hold on until they are properly healed.

The Path to Lasting Change

True and lasting change comes from healing the root cause — the original hurt or belief — not just layering positive thoughts on top of it. That's exactly what I help people do, using tools like EFT Tapping and Matrix Reimprinting to release what's been holding you back at the subconscious level, so that gratitude and the Law of Attraction can finally work with you rather than against you.

Ready to Go Deeper?

If this resonates, I'd love to support you. I offer free 20-minute consultations and would be honored to help you move forward.

If you’re finding it hard to feel grateful—especially if you’re carrying unresolved trauma or grief—know that you’re not alone. Healing is possible. If you’d like support in clearing the beliefs that hold you back, I offer free 20-minute consultations and would be honored to help you move forward.

👉 Click this Book a Call link to set up a time to chat. I'd love to help you free yourself from anything stopping you from experiencing freedom and attracting the good into your life.

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In love and gratitude,

Gail Mae

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