Overcome Procrastination with EFT-Tapping

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There is always a reason behind procrastination.
The key is to uncover why — and then tap on the underlying issue.

Here are some common causes:

1. Your Nervous System Is Trying to Keep You Safe

On a subconscious level, your brain may believe completing the task is threatening in some way.

The long-term payoff might feel risky:

What if I fail?
What if I lose my job?
What if I stand out and get judged?
What if success brings more pressure?

These hidden beliefs can keep you frozen. What looks like procrastination is often protection, which can cause feelings of overwhelm and brain fog.

2. A Form of Rebellion or Self-Protection

You may have an unconscious reaction to authority — a teacher, boss, parent, or anyone perceived as having power over you.

For some people, procrastination becomes the only way to maintain control.

This resistance is often connected to unresolved anger or resentment. Sometimes, a younger part of you may still be pushing back against expectations in response to past hurt, disappointment, or feeling unseen for your contributions.

That part is not sabotaging you.
It is signaling that something inside needs attention and sometimes, healing.

When childhood trauma remains unresolved, younger parts of you are easily activated. The nervous system cannot distinguish between the past and the present — it is reacting as though the threat is happening now.

This is not laziness.
It is a protective response.

3. A Practical or Preference Issue

Sometimes the reason is more straightforward. You might genuinely dislike this particular task.

Could you delegate it?
Do you need expert support?
Is it time to consider work that aligns better with your strengths?

4. A Necessary Discipline Moment

And sometimes, there is no deeper issue.

The task is required.
It supports a larger goal.
It needs to be done.

In those moments, it becomes an act of maturity — choosing the long-term outcome over short-term comfort.

Negative Beliefs

Negative beliefs operating in your subconscious affect your ability to complete important tasks and take care of yourself.

Procrastination can show up as staying busy—filling your time with low-priority or distracting activities such as scrolling SM, shopping, gambling, or overeating —basically, any addictive behavior—while avoiding important tasks or difficult conversations.

Ask yourself:

Is this helping me get my most important tasks done first?
Am I spending too much time on social media, YouTube, shopping, or other activities that aren’t helping me move forward or meet my goals?
How can I take care of myself here and achieve my goals?

Journal for 5 - 10 minutes

When we slow down and listen to the part that feels stressed and is distracting us from the work, it can reveal what it truly needs. Journaling gives that part a safe voice—and when it’s heard, when we gain self-awareness as to why we procrastinate. With that knowledge, we have freedom to make more empowering choices.

Try dialoguing with this part by asking questions and writing down whatever responses arise. There’s no need to overthink it; just allow the words to flow.

Begin by grounding yourself:

Take 3–10 slow, deep breaths.
Notice what you are feeling in your body.

Then write:

List three feelings you’re aware of.
Notice where each feeling lives in your body.

Now ask the part:

What are you feeling? Let the part say all it needs—have a back-and-forth dialogue with the part—the next two questions can give you ideas.
What do you need right now?
How can I help you?

Often, the anxious part that is stopping you simply wants to be acknowledged, heard, or reassured and encouraged.

If that is hard for you to give this anxious part of you acceptance and encouragement. Ask God or your higher power for a larger, loving perspective. I find that this opens a wider view—bringing insight, wisdom, and compassion.

EFT

EFT-Tapping calms the body’s fight-or-flight and freeze response.

Through tapping, the stress response subsides, and you feel more relaxed.
When you feel more relaxed, oxygen flows back into the brain, and you benefit from more mental clarity.

EFT neutralizes trauma patterns.
Instead of numbing out or experiencing brain fog, you regain choice in how you respond and move forward.

How to Use This Section

Below are examples of thoughts and beliefs that may surface when you procrastinate.

If none resonate, create your own statement.
Your words carry more emotional weight than mine — and that is what matters.

How to Tap on Each Statement

Choose one statement.
Tap for 5–10 minutes, or until it no longer feels true.
If another belief or emotion surfaces underneath the first one, tap on that next and so forth.

Think of it like peeling layers of an onion.

Proceed around the body in a clockwise direction. There is a tapping chart and example statements below:

Karate Chop Point →
Top of Head →
Eyebrow →
Side of Eye →
Under Eye →
Under Nose →
Under Lip →
Collarbone →
Under Arm →
Back to Karate Chop.

Go around 7–10 times.
Take a deep breath and check in with your body.

Notice whether anything has shifted in you.

Does anything feel different? Sometimes you feel better, there is energetic movement going on, other times it can feel worse, but don't give up, keep following the thread. Your energy is starting to flow, and that is what is important. You will be able to take deeper breaths, and your emotions may shift.

Did you get any insights?

Does the belief still feel true?

If so, keep tapping.

Then test it:
Begin the task.
Notice resistance, tension, or negative thoughts.

If they arise, there is simply more tapping to do.

This is not failure.
It is a process.

If you remain stuck, consider working with a skilled practitioner trained in releasing deeper issues and trauma.

Example Statements to Tap On

If none of these statements resonate, use your own statement that connects to a charged emotion:

I’m frustrated that I keep procrastinating—it's stopping me from achieving my goal/work/project.
I’m wasting precious time, if I don't get this completed ___________________ (put in your own phrase).
This task feels overwhelming. I’ll never get it done, but I'd like to have accomplished it.
What if I get negative feedback? They will think I am ________________. (put in your own word).
The hardest part about this is __________, I would like to be free of___________________.
I’m afraid that __________ and I don't want to care about that. I want to be free to _______________.
I don’t want to do this project, but I don't know how to change that. I wonder what's possible here that honors my needs?
I feel frozen/paralyzed/sick to my stomach / angry about this. I want to feel content/purposeful/inspired (use your words and phrase).
I would rather do anything but work on this, and that's okay, that's just the way I feel right now. I wonder what other options I have?

Practical Strategies for Doing Important Tasks First

Write your list the night before. Identify the most important tasks and commit to doing those first.
Tackle the hardest task first. Limit yourself to no more than three major tasks in a day.
Keep your list visible — on your computer where you can cross items off, or posted on your wall where it’s hard to ignore.
Use a timer. Set it for a period that feels manageable. Start small and build momentum.
If you have multiple tasks, use the timer for each one and honor the time boundary.
When you complete a task, acknowledge it. Celebrate in some way — play music, move your body, take a short break. You are retraining your brain to associate completion with reward.

It may sound excessive to celebrate small wins, but this is how you build new neural pathways.

How do You Want to feel at the end of your life?

From time to time, I ask myself how I would feel on my deathbed if I never pursued what I believed I was here to do.

Would I feel at peace, knowing I gave my best?
Or would I regret holding back?

I don’t want to leave this life knowing I wasted my gifts through avoidance or fear—remembering this keeps a fire lit within me.

No matter your age, it is important to reflect on this. You want to live fully — with passion, love, and as few regrets as possible.

The Role of Discipline

Yes, it takes discipline.

That word can feel heavy. However, the word itself comes from the Latin for "learner" — not enforcer. When we clear the fear and resistance around a task, we return to that original meaning: being someone willing to show up and learn.

Sometimes it takes nothing more than starting — even if you have to grit your teeth for a moment.

This is where tapping becomes invaluable. You can neutralize the fear, anger, or resentment that makes beginning feel impossible.

Is This Goal Truly Yours?

Before pushing forward, pause and ask: Is this goal aligned with my heart?

We sometimes pursue careers, roles, or ambitions because we believe we should. Family expectations, old vows, or past identities can drive our choices at a subconscious level.

It is acceptable to release a goal that no longer fits. Just be honest with yourself.

Make sure you are letting go because it is not true for you, not because it's your fear speaking.

If you would like to read more about procrastination, here's a link to a Case Study of a Client who was struggling with Procrastination in her business:

A Client Struggling With Procrastination In Her Business

I hope you feel better after tapping and that you will be able to achieve the tasks and goals you set out to do.

If the tapping brings up deep-seated trauma, and you need help healing with support. Please use the link below to schedule a complimentary, no-pressure 20-minute consultation.

https://calendly.com/gailmae/consult

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